Friday 20 April 2012

sex issue .


Social problem is everywhere.
This means that sex is everywhere.


Why I relate social problem with sex?

Generally, all of us know that most of social problem that occurred in our society nowadays is based on sex factor. Sex here not only about different gender, but on the other hand sex also means being sexual with other person – whether that involves kissing, touching or intercourse.

As I mention early, main cause of the social problem is sex. Couple, free sex, abortion, drug addict and even illegal racing also involved sex.

You can’t do sex if you are not husband and wife! It is a must for you to get married first in order to avoid serious disease such as syphilis.

Why free sex is not good?
·         Increase abortion case
·         Cause your body harm
·         Bad image of your family
·         Not allowed in our religion

Then, how come we settle this problem? As technology develop with lots of advance gadgets, it seems difficult to handle this problematic issue.

Before this problems become as our society habits, it is better for us stop this problem. But how?
1.   Parent take care – as a family, it is a must for each parent to care about their children. Parent should aware about their children changes and need to use the power as a leader to control the children. Never lets your children especially girl so anywhere alone. Besides, know who is your children’s friend, so, that in case of emergency, you can contact their friends.
2.   Enough religion education – parent and school play their role in order to give enough religion knowledge. If teenagers had enough knowledge about their religion, they will never make their parent shame because of their behavior.
3.   Carry awareness campaign – exposed to everybody about the effect of free sex. Indirectly, they will notice the harmful of making sex before married.

Our teenagers are our mirror for the future. So, let’s work together to have a better generation, so, Malaysia can develop well. 1 Malaysia.

without answer . without solution .



The identity of Jack the Ripper is probably the most famous unsolved crime in history. With the horror and the history surrounding events, it has become an increasingly popular topic in recent years with many new suspects being put forth. This list books, I made it from my point of view-the most interesting suspects.



1.   Montague John Druitt
·         Druitt was born in Wimborne Minster, Dorset, England, the son of a prominent local physician. He was educated at Winchester College and New College Oxford. He graduated from Oxford in 1880 and two years later was admitted to the Inner Temple and called to the bar in 1885. He practiced as a barrister and a special pleader until his death. His body was found floating in the River Thames off Thomeycroft’s torpedo works near Chiswick on 31 December 1888. Medical examination suggested that his body was kept at the bottom of the river for several weeks by stones placed in his pockets. The jury concluded that he committed suicide by drowning ‘whilst of unsound mind’. His disappearance and death shortly after the fifth and last canonical murder, took place on 9 November 1888, led some of the investigators years later to suggest he was the Ripper. Thus, explaining the end to the series of the murders.

2.   Sir William Withey Gull
·         Gull was physician-in-ordinary to Queen Victoria. He was named as the Ripper as part of the evolution of the royal conspiracy theory. It is just possible that Gull’s candidacy as a Ripper suspect is due to an odd item connected t his carrier. In April 1876 Gull was one of the physicians called to ‘The Priory’, the home of the barrister Charles Bravo when he was poisoned. Gull did what he could do, but he was hampered in not knowing the nature of the poison involved. Gull would testify at the massively covered coroner’s proceedings that summer, and insists it was suicide.

3.   Thomas Cutbush
·         In November 2008, a newspaper reported that files released from Broadmoor high security hospital indicate that Thomas Hayne Cutbush may have been responsible for the murders, which ceased from the time of his detention. Besides, Cutbush was sent to Lambeth Infirmary in 1891 suffering delusions thought to have been caused by syphilis. After stabbing one women and attempting to stab a second he was pronounced insane and committed to Broadmoor that same year, where he remained until his death in 1903.

Randomly, this is my own idea about this case. Whether it is true or not, I also don’t know. For sure, the information about all suspects, I picked randomly in internet and most of that I get it from Wikipedia. 

jack the ripper time .


Hard to start. Hard to finish.
Oh assignment.

After reviewing the case of Jack the Ripper, I believe that his motivation to kill was psychosexual in nature. So, this is the major reasons why Jack the Ripper only killed prostitute.

Basically, he mutilated all these women and removed their genitals which suggest that there was some sort of sexual sadistic motive, according to the different serial killer typologies.

As we know, Jack the Ripper appeared as well aware about female anatomy, thus allowing him to meticulously remove the genitals and the other body parts almost flawless. Logically, he could be having possibly been a doctor.


Movie ‘From Hell’ is one example of the movie that related with Jack the Ripper case. By right, it is difficult to catch the killer since there are lots of suspects.

But, I am wondering on something. Jack the Ripper was a serious crime, but, how come, London Police can’t settle that case? It is too hard to find the solution?

Are they practice critical thinking and reasoning skills?
Are they used fact and opinion?

Then, this is the main reason why I hate police. Sometimes, police didn’t done their work properly and let the criminals free to kill, rob and rape others people.

However, not all policeman acts like jerk. Nowadays, responsible, obey and respectful policeman still exist among the jerk policeman. But, it is too hard to recognize them.

For all Malaysian policemen, garb the opportunity and done your jobs well, okay? We as the public, always hope and depending on your good quality of service. 1 Malaysia. J


struggle until the end .



Holt – Lunstad says:
start with controlling your own behavior and being the kind of friend you’d want others to be.

Basically, we know that FRIENDS will always stay at our side on order to courage and help us so that we will never give up on your life. When everything getting tougher and complicated, true friend never stop to press your inner side so that you will maintain stronger.

During our childhood, before we know nobody, our family is our friends. For sure, until now and in the end of the world, I believe that my family is the true friends that nobody can’t replace it. Even my parent seem busy and sometimes doesn’t had enough time to speak with me, even they sometimes doesn’t had enough time to rest, but I believe in one things.

MY PARENT NEVER FORGETS TO PRAY FOR MY BEST.
he speak English very clear.*serious.

People around me make laugh, share same level of stressful and somehow, we also fight to fulfill our needs, but still, my house is the most powerful place to control everything that disturb my mind. *wish to back home L

How come you call it true friends if your relationship full of critics, jealously or rejection?

Based on my own experience, I believe in the existence of ‘FRENEMIES’.

Basically, I also agree with the article ‘Fickle Friends’ that frenemies can make your health harm. For sure, the bad qualities such as jealously, critics and rejection will give negative impacts on our mental and physical well-being. 

Besides, this problematic relationship can make you boosting your blood pressure and risk of depression while lowering resistance to stress.

Unfortunately, the kind of problematic relationship will never end. Usually, our friends hurt us, spoil everything, but, realize that we don’t want to lose them, you just forgive them. In order to maintain some relationship, we need to act like mature person and always avoid emotional clash.

As human, always remember:
WHEN SOMEONE IS SO SWEET TO YOU, DON’T EXPECT THAT THEY WILL BE LIKE THAT ALL THE TIME. BECAUSE EVEN THE SWEETEST CHOCOLATE ALSO EXPIRED.

half die already .


No idea, no talk.
No money, no food.
I am getting tired since the clock is already 1.07 am. Oh my god. Please help me and make me tough only for this night. *whispered…

Have you ever notice about the differences between thinking and knowing?

Does your knowledge will make you think and what is the thing that you need to know that will make you think? It is this sentence is critical enough?


THINKING
KNOWING
Courage your mind in order to define and learn something.
Based on your basic knowledge.

Before we go further, let’s me tell you a big secret that OXFORD DICTIONARY never reveal.


Fact are:
·         Things known for certain to have happened
·         Things known for certain to be true
·         Things known for certain to exist

Opinion are:
·         Things believed to have happened
·         Things believed to be true
·         Things believed to exist

In a simple way, we can conclude fact as on what we known and opinion is based on what we believed.

Basically, when you started knowing about something, you will indirectly think about it. For example, as teenager, not is common to talk about love issue, right?

Once you started knowing this guy, as a girl, it is a must for us to think about that guy most of the time. Even during eat, wake, study and may be in sleep also we hope that guy will appear in our dream. *yucks…

But this is the example of knowing that can lead to thinking. Everything that related with that guy is something that the girl will think. Why that guy sad? Why he used to be alone? Where is his parent? What is the story behind him?

Same goes with our parent condition. Our parent take a good care of us since baby and everything about us was on their hand and mind. Since our parent know us better, so, when we disappear from their live maybe for further study, our parents will worry about us. They started to think what is our activity? Who are our friends? What kind of foods that we eat?

Somehow, whether we realize it or not, the skills of thinking can lead us to be prejudice towards something. On contrast, it is good for us to think as long as it doesn’t destroy us. 

word can hurt . word can amaze .


Words are powerful, and they can influence us without us even realize it. If not, I can’t come out with my own quote which is ‘war is not when the word is wrong, but, war is when the word you say is wrong.’

Since word can make two parties in war, that is why I believe the existence of EUPHEMISMS and DYSPHEMISMS.

However, what is the meaning of euphemisms?

Besides, what is the meaning of dysphemism?

EUPHEMISMS
DYSPHEMISMS
A milder or more positive expression used to replace a negative or unpleasant one.
Replacing a neutral or positive expression with a negative or unpleasant one.

feel free to watch this video and see on how your word can change your day.
Generally, euphemism is less insulting synonyms, when a word or phrase used in place of a term that might be considered to direct, harsh, unpleasant or offensive. We can claim euphemisms as laser person during their talk since they don’t really care about others feelings.

On the other hand, dysphemism is more proper and gentle, when the speaker speaks more polite and the speaker manages to think first before say anything. Even when the speaker was not satisfy with something and feel anger but, he still know on how to control his words without hurting other parties.

As public, which one is more proper?
BANTUAN RAKYAT 1 MALAYSIA? RASUAH RAKYAT 1 MALAYSIA?

In order to influence others, we can change our word. If the media write ‘RASUAH’ for sure nobody will believe our government, right? So, instead of using the word ‘ RASUAH’, it is more polite to use ‘BANTUAN’. Indirectly, we as public will never think about the negative side of our government, right?

Sorry to say, I am writing not to condemn, but, this is the most powerful example that I can show about the powerful of words.

I guess this post is just a reminder. Be honest, but be nice. Avoid to hurt others heart with your words. Don’t forget that something you say could stick with someone for the rest of their lives. Watch your mouth! 

past never repeat


Today, it is tough and complicated day? At this moment, I am trying my best to make this task complete and I wish everything will over by this night. Insya’allah.

As fragile human being, I am depending 100% on ALLAH SWT. If he wills, everything will run smoothly under my plan and schedule.

Now, let’s talk about PARABLE/ALLORGERY. Due to ANALOGY topic, this word PARABLE/ALLORGERY was my new terms and also for sure was my new knowledge too.


Before this, I only learn analogy in Malay language during my Bahasa Melayu classes. Never notice that this is my third years I leave my school session and now I am college student. 

Need to be patient for 1 more years. WOW!!!

Back to the topic.
Back to the discussion.
Back to the main point.

Okay. What is it PARABLE/ALLERGORY?

Based on my lecture, Sir Kamaraziz’s slide, PARABLE/ALLORGERY is the symbolic expression of a deeper meaning through a story/scene acted out by human, animal or mythical expression.

As stated in my READING GUIDE, based on the story of PLATO’s MYTH OF THE CAVE, it is clearly shows us on how to use parable/allegory properly. Feel free to click here if you want to understand more about what is ‘PLATO’s MYTH OF THE CAVE’.


Since 1992, when I was born, I am also had an experienced to be as a prisoner. From the primary agent, which is my own family, my house where I grown up. Then, my school where I need to obey all the rules in order to avoid any social problems that will harm our school name. Next, live as college student also demanding me to be as a prisoner since I need to burden myself with lots of assignments. *sigh…


Somehow, I think it is good to be a prisoner.

When you claim yourself as a prisoner, you will usually bear in mind that you need to be patient. Why? Life as college students will never end if you not submit you assignment, right? So, as a student you need to be patient and struggle well to gain for a better result. Once you give up, you will never get second chance.

Indirectly, be as a prisoner will train you to become more mature and you will grown-up well. Even sometimes reality hurt us, but, we never realize that the reality usually make us learn. Why as a girl, my father didn’t allow me to hang out with my friend at night? 5 years ago, I wonder about this issued. Now, as an adult that had learnt CRITICAL THINKING, I realized about the drawbacks when I hang out at night. It is not safe for me to go outside at night since there are lots of kidnapping, raped and also killing cases. So, to avoid this matter, it is better for me to stay on my own house. Watching television is better, right?


Today, I really miss the moment when my father scolds me to do homework and revision. From now, I need to remind everything without my father attention. Miss the moment as a prisoner…J

Besides, don't you realize that we also being a prisoner in our own world? ALLAH SWT as god control us and whether we like it or not, we need to obey everything.